When conflict arises in our relationships, our knee-jerk
reaction is to BLAME our pain on something outside of us.
BEWARE: This post
today is one that could reveal to you the approach for true, deep personal
freedom and peace.
There is only one place where pain exists: within ourselves.
The world around us, circumstances that arise, people’s
behaviors—these are “Divine” triggers that leads us to our CUTTING EDGE of
growth. Our closest relationships are
typically the territory that bring us the most opportunities to Learn and Grow.
Notice, it is called a CUTTING Edge. This place is often an incredibly Pain-filled
place. For, to become the best, most
evolved version of ourselves, it is necessary to heal the pain WITHIN US.
What if we began to use every situation in which we feel
inner pain to look inside (NOT OUTSIDE) and understand what remains to be healed?
What if rather than getting angry at the world around us, we
looked inside to see what anger towards ourselves still exists?
What if rather than forging ahead and ignoring conflicts and
pain within, we took the time to sit and lovingly examine the PAIN BODY in US
that requires our attention?
Guess what? That PAIN
BODY will continue to whisper to us…then talk to us…then it will scream at us
UNTIL we give it the love and attention it desperately needs. And, Life WILL keep bringing us all the challenges
needed to trigger our pain until we clean it up.
Here’s the CHOICE: do
the inner work now and get it resolved OR keep creating painful patterns over
and over. That is the constant
opportunity we are offered on a daily basis—yet, few of us understand that this
choice is a DIVINE GIFT we are being offered again and again and again.
I write this all from deep experience. I am on the CUTTING EDGE of my own
growth. While it is exciting, it can
also feel quite intense, difficult and painful.
What I’ve learned is that it is worth it to FACE what remains within me
and take the time to honor the feelings, understand its origins and work with
it until it is fully resolved.
Will you join me in this approach? Imagine if all your inner pain was fully
healed? How would you feel? Who would you be in the World if your pain
was replaced by total peace and love?
How would your relationships transform?
How much energy and power would be unleashed?
This is NOT an approach for the faint of heart—for they
think it is easier to run and escape, to self-soothe with materialism,
addiction to work or to alcohol—to anything tat will help them avoid what’s
inside.
This approach is for the ones who realize that if they just
take the time to deal with what is inside RIGHT NOW—it may feel unpleasant for
a time but it will open up a lifetime of INNER FREEDOM, PEACE and JOY which is
what they ultimately yearn for.
I’m here if this approach resonates with you. I’ve been walking this path of healing for a
long time. Layer after layer of needed
growth and healing reveals itself when we are willing to become aware. And, often, it helps to have someone hold our
hands or offer a listening ear as we walk through it. You can contact me via my
website if you need assistance or coaching in this journey to your highest
potential.
All my love,
Patricia Omoqui, The Thought Dr.
www.patriciaomoqui.com
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