I believe there is an alternative way of thinking. It goes like this, "As I share my resources with others, it helps me to grow. As I help others rise higher, I naturally rise higher as well."
That is the philosophy I embrace. It is the spirit I attempt to live with each day. I have found that this lifestyle has great rewards.
I will share a concrete example, an experience I have had over the past month.
In November 2011 I had the privilege of speaking in Abuja (Nigeria) to a fantastic group of women. Their organization is called Business Professional Women - Nigeria (BPW). I delivered a keynote address called The Mindset of the Empowered Woman. I was inspired by being part of the event and by sharing my address with the group.
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| Speaking at BPW event, November 2011 |
While there I mentioned to the President of the group that if they ever came to the U.S., they should let me know. I expressed my interest in helping them find the connections they need for their personal and professional growth.
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| Angela Ajala (BPW Nigeria President) and me at the event |
Fast forward to February 2012. I receive an email from the BPW President, Angela Ajala. She lets me know a group of 25 to 35 women will be attending the UN Conference on the Status of Women. She takes me up on my offer for connecting the women to opportunities.
Let me tell you, for years I have had a vision in my heart--to be a bridge between the USA and Nigeria. For those of you who don't know, my husband is Nigerian and I am greatly passionate about Nigeria's development. In my mind's eyes I could see myself arranging these opportunities. I had been doing this on a small, informal scale for several years. But now was my first formal opportunity to do a sizeable project for this aim.
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| Bridging two cultures - Avon hosted us and took the time to make these amazing centerpieces. I was so happy! |
For three weeks I worked furiously to make connections. My goal was to provide each woman with an experience that would open her eyes to new possibilities and ideas that she could take back to Nigeria and harness for greater success.
Hour after hour, email after email, a plan took shape. I found that my American colleagues were eager to have interactions with their Nigerian counterparts. At last, an all day Mentoring Match-up schedule materialized. I honestly could not stop smiling as I worked on the project.
February 29th was the big day in New York City. There were meetings set up with big companies like Avon and Eileen Fisher as well as younger companies like Snowden Capital. I had the opportunity to stop by each and every meeting and experience the exchange of information and kindness. It was delightful to see the spark in the eyes of the women as the day unfolded.
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| Group of BPW women visiting Avon Executives |
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| BPW Women at Eileen Fisher learning about fashion design |
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| Snowden Capital hosted a group and shared expertise about Financial Investments |
I share all this just to say -- share your connections with others. As you get to know other people, ask them about their vision. Share your vision with them too. As we each offer one another assistance in making our dreams become our realities, we all benefit. We can all grow together. There is plenty of success to go around.
I hope you feel inspired to make an impact this way in whatever small or big way is possible. As we care and share, beautiful ripples of success come about for all of us.
Write down these powerful words of Helen Keller and meditate on them this week:
"I am only one but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do.”
What small things will you do this week to help someone grow? Remember, as you do, you are guaranteed growth as well.
With a smile of amazing joy!
Patricia Omoqui
http://www.patriciaomoqui.com/
