Empty space inside. Clearing out old. Opening to new. Contemplation. Meditation. Growing awareness. Living. Being. Listening. Noticing. Healing. Willing to write but no words to be found.
That's the space I've been in as a writer as of late. Inspiration has flowed in short spurts (thus the Facebook and Twitter posts have flowed), but not in the longer blog spurts. But, tonight, I just felt compelled to share a few helpful ideas:
1. You can always choose a positive perspective. A fabulous way to do so is to ask the following questions:
What good can I see in this situation?
What good can I see in this person?
What good can I find in myself?
These questions bring you toward light and hope, toward grace and goodness. These questions allow you to experience life in an empowered way.
You can become good at asking these questions by carrying them in your pocket and reading them regularly (especially in those moments when your mind is tending toward the dark, dreary, negative).
2. Taking the time to express the positive you see in others to them is powerful. It's a technique called Acknowledgment. You notice good traits another person has. And, in one easy statement you can say aloud (or in a text), "One thing I know about you is that you are_____________ (good, kind, compassionate, creative, humble, gracious, helpful etc.)."
Just this past week I shared a struggle I was having with some of my friends. In the course of the conversation someone acknowledged me saying, "You are an amazing woman." Those words were like refreshing water in a moment when my spirit was thirsty.
Why not find some people in your life and reflect to them something positive you see in them? By doing so, you lift them up. And, you too will feel the joy of using loving words to encourage them.
3. Ground yourself in THIS moment. Yes, you only have to do life one little moment at a time. Some call it the ever-present NOW. The whole point is to bring your mind, body and spirit fully to the NOW. Doing this allows you to more fully enjoy, experience and maximize life.
Practice this today by taking a deep breath. Feel your heart beating. Feel your feet planted firmly on the ground. Affirm: I choose to take one moment at a time and savor the experience. (Doesn't that feel good?)
I bring these ideas to you because I practice them myself--and, for me, they really do work to keep me uplifted, peaceful and flowing in the midst of life's constant surprises and challenges.
Hope you find something you can use in your journey!
With a smile,
Patricia Omoqui, The Thought Dr.
Thanks I learnt a lot reading this piece..I will definitely put em to practice at one.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad :) Practicing is the key! Well done.
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